One evening last winter while I was sipping a vodka martini at the Waldorf Astoria in Beverly Hills, a friend asked me what single quality I thought all benefit auctioneers should possess. Her question caught me off guard. Moments before we were discussing our mutual obsession with K-pop, and her question felt out of left field. I sat at the table, overlooking the glittering cityscape, and pondered the question. I wanted to be thoughtful in my response; however, I was in Los